My life is constantly changing but I remain the same. My life is my own to live. No one and nothing can change that.
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If you want to say something to me so badly that you leave a comment, don't be a scared little bitch and delete it before I have the chance to read it and respond.
I feel this way about several people. They talk about me all the time, but whenever they are around me in person, they freeze up and can't even make eye contact. I prefer direct confrontation!
The rings were bought at family dollar or dollar general. My grandma can't remember which one exactly. Ally did say thank you to you and Tina for helping her get into diamond painting, we can't wait for our first project together to arrive so thank you for the recommendation.
It wasn't so much a recommendation for you, it was a special activity I DID have set up for her, her nana, and I for the summer. Y'all enjoy that though. I have another special project in line for us to do over the summer.
Im not being spiteful. I simply don't want to order her a diamond painting that you've already gotten her. Especially because she hasn't even tried diamond painting yet. I had already gotten the message from Jr, as always, but thanks. As for "putting words in Ally's mouth", I have no reason to. But if you would like to hear it from another mouth that heard our conversation, you are more than welcome to call her father and hear it from him as well. Have a nice day ✌
Again, you are blowing things out of proportion. You have it wrong. I am glad you are actually going to do something with your daughter. It'll be a nice change to hear about you doing something with her vs S, her aunt's, and her grandparents. I simply won't be making any other diamond painting purchases for her until she is here and can tell me what she already has. In the mean time, I have another activity in mind for us. As far as conversation between you and Jr, he always fills me in. Because I am a factor in the decision making process for her while she is under our roof. Therefore, I need to know what is going on with her. I am sorry you can not or will not accept that fact. But unfortunate for you, I am to be his wife. We do not brain wash her. 90% of her time spent here, she spends playing like a child should. What she shares with us is her choice. We do not force her or put words in her mouth as you say we do. With that being said, I wish you the best. Goodbye! ✌
Wow, you really do need your brain checked out. Heres a bit of a correction for you. We didn't have ally last summer. Last summer you went against court order and sent A out of state with her grandparents. Secondly, A was more than excited to be here for the summer, as she always is until you fill her head full of the things you will do with her when she returns. Third, it seems aweful funny that everything was fine and dandy for this summer until it was requested that you pay back the money you borrowed from my inlaws over 6 months ago. And finally, you talk about not knowing what goes on up there?!?! Well the same goes for you. For the last time, leaving children with their father is not considered leaving them alone. Its considered leaving them with their parent. Allowing her to have a later bed time and not do dishes and laundry at age 7 isn't considered her not having structure. Cleaning the home is the parents job. Thats why my house doesn't smell of cat piss so badly tbat it burns peoples eyes ✌
Okay... I know all of you are probably wondering what's with the magic trick title. So I'll explain. For years Joey made sure that I believed there was no way in hell I could make it without him. Then when Brandi and I got together he really started in on the "y'all wouldn't be able to afford all this without me", "if I don't make the money then you'll lose everything", "without me, all of this is gone". Well guess what?!? He's been gone for nearly 2 months and we have it figured out. The car is refinanced and now has lower payments. The household is running smoothly for the most part. The kids still have everything they need. And all the bills are paid and up to date. What money we are able to put back over the next month will cover necessities for back to school. But after that's taken care of.. we should be just fine. I guess it wasn't so much of a magic trick as it was strategy... But hey, here ...
Yesterday was by far one of the worst days I have had in a very long time. Normally when I say I have had a bad day it means the kids have drove me crazy or something simple breaks causing an inconvenience. No! Yesterday was a bad day. Let's start with the fact of nearly waking up too late to get the kids on the school bus. I guess due to being up late dealing with sinus drainage, I didn't hear my alarm. So there I was all scatter brained and rushing kids out the door. I was running almost 20 minutes late and the kids were just minutes from missing the bus. Then let's add the fact that I had a vet appointment for Bridget. That actually went pretty well until the worlds biggest German Sheppard scared the crap out of her and caused her to go into an anxiety attack. And when I say this dog was huge, I mean huge. The damn thing was bigger than I am by a long shot. He gave me anxiety. But poor little 19 pound Bridget was terrified. Her muscles ...
I would be lying if I said this week has been any easier than the ones it followed. It's actually been more hectic than the weeks before. With school being out longer than what was originally foreseen, well it's been a pain in the ass. I'm actually hoping that school decides to tack on a week or two once they do return. This momma needs a break. But if we are being completely honest... I wish they would continue the school year through most of the summer.. or at very least offer summer schooling. I think that would be considered fair since my kids fight me so hard on doing their school work and turning it in on time. Homeschooling is definitely not for the faint of heart. It will drive you insane. On the plus side of things, we got a midweek visit from Daddy. His load schedule allowed him to come home for 24 hours in between loads. So yay for us. Brandi and I both needed some Daddy time. The kids weren't so happy to see him though. They were all in troub...
I feel this way about several people. They talk about me all the time, but whenever they are around me in person, they freeze up and can't even make eye contact. I prefer direct confrontation!
ReplyDeleteThe rings were bought at family dollar or dollar general. My grandma can't remember which one exactly. Ally did say thank you to you and Tina for helping her get into diamond painting, we can't wait for our first project together to arrive so thank you for the recommendation.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't so much a recommendation for you, it was a special activity I DID have set up for her, her nana, and I for the summer. Y'all enjoy that though. I have another special project in line for us to do over the summer.
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DeleteIm not being spiteful. I simply don't want to order her a diamond painting that you've already gotten her. Especially because she hasn't even tried diamond painting yet. I had already gotten the message from Jr, as always, but thanks. As for "putting words in Ally's mouth", I have no reason to. But if you would like to hear it from another mouth that heard our conversation, you are more than welcome to call her father and hear it from him as well. Have a nice day ✌
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ReplyDeleteAgain, you are blowing things out of proportion. You have it wrong. I am glad you are actually going to do something with your daughter. It'll be a nice change to hear about you doing something with her vs S, her aunt's, and her grandparents. I simply won't be making any other diamond painting purchases for her until she is here and can tell me what she already has. In the mean time, I have another activity in mind for us.
DeleteAs far as conversation between you and Jr, he always fills me in. Because I am a factor in the decision making process for her while she is under our roof. Therefore, I need to know what is going on with her. I am sorry you can not or will not accept that fact. But unfortunate for you, I am to be his wife. We do not brain wash her. 90% of her time spent here, she spends playing like a child should. What she shares with us is her choice. We do not force her or put words in her mouth as you say we do.
With that being said, I wish you the best. Goodbye! ✌
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DeleteWow, you really do need your brain checked out. Heres a bit of a correction for you. We didn't have ally last summer. Last summer you went against court order and sent A out of state with her grandparents. Secondly, A was more than excited to be here for the summer, as she always is until you fill her head full of the things you will do with her when she returns. Third, it seems aweful funny that everything was fine and dandy for this summer until it was requested that you pay back the money you borrowed from my inlaws over 6 months ago. And finally, you talk about not knowing what goes on up there?!?! Well the same goes for you. For the last time, leaving children with their father is not considered leaving them alone. Its considered leaving them with their parent. Allowing her to have a later bed time and not do dishes and laundry at age 7 isn't considered her not having structure. Cleaning the home is the parents job. Thats why my house doesn't smell of cat piss so badly tbat it burns peoples eyes ✌
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