The Life I Chose to live

      How has it been two whole years already? It feels like not too long ago I was holding her for the first time, but here we are 2 years old and full of personality. Happy Birthday baby girl! 

  Meet Raymon and Levi. These are the two newest additions to our family. They came to live with us in late September. This started out as a temporary living environment for them while their grandmother worked on getting them a house. But due to unforseen circumstances it became more of a permanent living situation. A month ago they asked if I would take things a step further and take full custody of them. Obviously, I said yes. We spoke with an attorney a couple of weeks ago and got two birds taken care of with one stone. We are now working with the attorney for me to take full custody of these two and to get my divorce! Wish us luck. This year is going to be our year!

   I don't even know where I left off in life if we are being honest. But I feel like we are living an entirely different life. Everything has changed for everyone. So get ready to read a short novel.    So I do believe everyone knows Brandi went back to work through a temp agency. Well she's worked her ass off and has managed to make her way up the ladder. She was switched to nightshift and trained in a different department. She's doing well there and it's a fairly good place to work. She seems happy with it and has decided that she is going to stay there.     Her decision to stay at this job pushed us to make another big decision in life. We moved out of Wichita falls. I have to say that alone was one of the best decisions we could have ever made for our family. But it came with some hard to swallow truths. It made us realize that maybe we aren't as close to some of our friends as we had thought. But we all hit realizations like that as adults. That moment when yo